How to choose your half orange

They made us believe that real love, the one that’s strong, only happens once, more likely before your thirties.

they never told us that love is not something that you can put into motion, or has a time schedule.

 they made us believe that each one of us is half of an orange, and that only life makes sense when you find the other half. 

they did not tell us that were born as a whole- and that no one in our lives deserves to carry on their backs suck responsibility of completing what is missing on us. we grow and get through life by ourselves
 if we have good company, it just makes life more pleasant.

they made us believe in a formula “two in one”: two people sharing the same line of thinking, same ideas, and that is what works. 

it has never been told that it has another name: invalidation. that only two individuals with their own personality is how you can have a healthy relationship. it has been made to believe that marriage is an obliged institution and that fantasies out of hour should be repressed.

  beautiful They made us believe that the thin and beautiful  are the ones who are more loved.

they made us believe that the ones that have little sex are boring, and the ones that have a lot of it are not trustful.

what they forgot to tell us is that there are more crooked minds than feet. they made us believe that there is a one specific formula to happiness, the same one to
everyone, and that the ones that escape from that are condemned to be delinquents. we have never been told that when those formulas go wrong, they
get those people frustrated, and that we can try other alternatives.

oh! also they did not tell us that no one will tell those things to us. each and every one of us will have to learn by ourselves. and, when we get to the point that you are in love with yourself first, that is when you can fall in love with somebody else.

John Lennon

Don't fall in love with a girl only because she has a nice butt, or some cute breasts.

 Don't you fall only because she has nice forms, because those will be lost with time.

Rather than fall in love with the scent of her skin and the emotions that give you a smile.

Fall in love with her hugs and her caresses.

Fall in love of her imperfections.
She has them, they are unique and unavoidable, they collect her true essence, get drunk from it.

Do not pay attention to shapes. Dig into her soul and reach the center of her heart. Fall in love with this, because it is the only thing that you will ever find.

Bob Marley

 Every girl on TV, in real life, 
 sure you want to meet that soul mate 
 and fall in love and have the big thing, 
 but until that happens,
 you gotta kiss a lot of frogs. 

You fell in love with my flowers but not my roots, 
so when autumn came you didn't know what to do..

 "Since sex got easier to get,
 love got harder to find."